(Reading tarot cards) Understanding Women - The Affair and why women have them.
No commentsBy Joshua Penman
Most people are under the impression that the main reason that most women embark on an extramarital affair is that they are getting their own back on their husband. However you will be surprised to know that according to a recent pole, only 7% of affairs by women are retaliatory in nature. So with this in mind, why do women have affairs? And what are the main reasons behind it.
Starting off please be aware that the affair that a woman would be planning will first start in her mind and heart. The results some men find, in some cases on a computer after the wife has been visiting online dating sites is well after the fact of the relationship problems that existed prior and now are manifested. This comes from the basic deep desire to be ’swept off her feet’ along with some rather ‘romantic’ tones however immoral they are, this may seem (feel) rational to her. So she would seek a partner through online dating sites or online relationships sites not just the usual friend or acquaintance.
This process may start with dissatisfaction in a relationship, loneliness or simply an emotional desire that has gotten out of hand and led itself to a romance novel, soap opera, male friend or online dating site.
It is good to note that the one main reason why a woman will have an affair is indeed for emotional gratification. Women need to feel a close emotional connection with their husband or partner, as this will over time lay the foundations for a strong marriage relationship bond. It is this security that women want in a relationship, and if their partner is not meeting their emotional needs, then this is when a woman will most likely find it in another way. Not always from a romance novel either. With the advent of computers and online dating sites, this increases the opportunities as well.
Improvement of self-esteem can be another reason as to why women will want to have affairs. This goes back to the relationship orientation of a woman and deep down desire to feel completely loved. Everybody likes to think that they are still attractive to their partner, but as a relationship or marriage goes on, there might be an element of doubt creeping in to her as to whether her spouse still finds her attractive. And if the husband is not helping his wife on a romantic emotional level, she may start wandering. And with the availability of many forms of communication and ‘instant gratification’ through online dating social sites, this can further the problems. And although the man may assume that the woman knows that he loves her deeply, if he does not tell her how attractive she is, or that she looks beautiful in a particular outfit, or in some other way or form of appreciation, then the woman’s self esteem might well be low and shell have a ‘emotional hole’ in her heart. Over a period of time this can have a detrimental effect upon the relationship. In some cases a women might look to another man who is willing to shower her with attention and compliments, or one she thinks would be willing to do this. Remember, affairs are emotional then physical and not based on love or deliberate will.
Another reason that a woman might embark on an affair is for new and varied sexual experience. This is particularly easier with the advent of the internet (not it is not just guys) and of course, online dating and online relationship sites. If sex between a couple is boring and no longer exciting in any way, a woman might find that she is lacking the emotional connection and thrill that the physical act of great sex coupled with well planned romance can bring. And with the vast array of photos and profiles to look through on an online dating site, if her needs are great enough and the opportunity arises then she will find a partner, maybe not actively, but possibly subconsciously, albeit a one night stand, casual affair or a long term relationship with whom she can fulfill these needs.
To answer the question why do women have affairs in short form? The rationale is really because they don’t feel emotionally fulfilled. Emotional fulfillment comes on so many levels, it could be from something as simple as a partner holding them when they are upset, or being told that they are loved and desired. When this need is not being met by their partner, and they are lonely in their relationship or marriage then the women is far more likely to embark on an affair.
For more information on understanding women and relationships check out: http://www.TheArtofUnderstandingWomen.com or http://www.JustforRelationships.com
Sexual Health For Men - How Can I Make My Sex Life More, Sexy?
By johnkeivh
There are many ways to have been satisfying and fulfilling sex; it remains an unusual experienced in far too many of us. According to one magazine survey, almost fifty sex percent of men are dissatisfied with their sex life and eighty three percent believe there is room for improvement in their sexual performance. Since enjoyable sex health for men is important, as well as overall well being, it is vital we find ways of improving our experiences between the sheets.
However, we need to understand one important point that sex help keeps you fit. Men heart rates can rise rapidly during sex from an average of seventy or eighty beats per minute at rest to hundred to one seventy five beats per minute during during the build up to orgasm and 110 to 80 beats during orgasm itself. The heart rates men experienced during sex can be similar in intensity to those generated by vigorous aerobic exercise; in fact, an hour of passionate sex could easily burn off 360 calories, equivalent to about two pints of beer.
Attempting to model your sex life on what you see at the cinema, on video, or in magazines will most likely guarantee you bad sex. For a start, it is a fantasy: if we try to recreate this kind of sex in our own bedrooms, we are setting ourselves up for disappointment and failure. However, there are many misunderstandings in sex life. Most of the people are still thinking that masturbation is not good for natural ejaculation control. Although few people now believe masturbation is wrong, many of us still feel slightly guilty about solo sex. Perhaps it is a legacy of the prudish past, or maybe it is also because masturbation seen as a sign of failure. After all, real men are supposed to have real sex, not make-believe sex with a bottle of oil and a box of tissues.
It is common occasionally to feel embarrassed or shy, but if your feelings are stronger and getting in the way of sex then you need to find out why. Some men who had very religious or prudish parents have been brought up to believe that sex is somehow shameful or dirty. Others may have been punished if caught playing with their penis as a child or masturbating when a teenager, leaving them with the belief that sex is wrong. Finally there are some well informative websites in internet are providing advanced techniques masturbation and penis enlargement techniques to their customers. For more information and details, please do not hesitate to visit their valuable website.
John Keivh is a author of university-of-australia website.There are many ways to have been satisfying and fulfilling sex; it remains an unusual experienced in far too many of us. if you want to know more about Advanced techniques masturbation and sexual health for men.
Online dating prospects
By Kerten Feslet
Nowadays our life is wholly connected to Internet. Almost everyone has a computer at home (and many people have even two computers - one is the stationary personal computer and the second is a laptop which they can take everywhere they need). Also, almost each person is connected to Internet and those who have no Internet access at home usually use different cyber cafes with Wi-Fi zones. Anyway, everyone use Internet, some ones often and some ones not and somebody turn on his computer and start using Internet when he just woke up and do it await he will go to sleep. There are a lot of people who work through Internet and exactly they can use Internet 24/7.
Many people use Internet for appointment new people, which then going to be their friends and lovely ones. Online Russian girls are exactly those who are looking for a lucky marriage and nice men for it, of course. Such dating sites are very valuable and unbelievably widespread at present either for the women or men. Also, that’s very easy to start looking for a man or a woman. On such kind of sites you can usually look at the user’s profile, which consist of the next information about user: age, color of eyes, weight, number of kids (if user has them, of course), interests like favorite films, actors and music. This information is very valuable for all people who are looking for a mate or love because when you read profile information you can already see would you like that woman or man or he is not for you. When you look into profile you see what just like the one you are interested in and if this will be man or a woman from the same country you are from, you can see in profile what food woman like and invite her for a dinner in her favorite cafe or restaurant.
Also if you will notice what kind of music she likes you can invite her for a live concert of the band she likes. Russian girl online can like the same, for example, English band as you like. Well, today we can not even imagine our life without global network through which we all the time are online - we correspond to people - that could be our family, partners, new people, we can purchase all the stuff like dresses, furniture, well we can buy almost everything through Internet. We can do almost everything through Internet - play games, work, make shopping, study, and flirt. But also we should not overlook about living outside of computer and Internet and meet with our mates when it’s possible, of course, when you live in the same city.
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